In short: gender-neutral or unisex names are names given to both girls and boys. In English, well-established choices include Alex, Charlie, Sam and Robin, while Riley, Quinn, Avery and Jordan are popular modern picks and River, Rowan and Sage are favourite nature names. When choosing, check the meaning, the spelling and how the name sounds with your surname.
Author: Eva Birsa, mum and co-founder of Evitas · Updated: 27 September 2026
What are gender-neutral baby names?
Gender-neutral names (also called unisex names) are names that:
- work for both girls and boys,
- don't sound distinctly masculine or feminine,
- often come from short forms of names, surnames or nature,
- suit every stage of life, from baby to adult.
Gender-neutral names at a glance: origin and meaning
| Name | Origin and meaning | Why it works for both |
|---|---|---|
| Alex | short for Alexander and Alexandra, Greek “defender” | short form of a boy's and a girl's name |
| Charlie | short for Charles and Charlotte, Germanic “free man” | short form of a boy's and a girl's name |
| Sam | short for Samuel and Samantha | short form of a boy's and a girl's name |
| Robin | originally a short form of Robert; also the bird | long used for both in English |
| Riley | English and Irish surname | surname names rarely carry a gender |
| Jordan | Hebrew “to flow down”, after the River Jordan | place name, used for girls and boys |
| Avery | English surname derived from Alfred | surname name, today given to both |
| Quinn | Irish surname | short and without a gendered ending |
Classic unisex names
- Alex – modern and strong, goes with almost any surname.
- Charlie – friendly and cheerful at any age.
- Sam – simple and timeless.
- Robin – soft-sounding and nature-linked.
- Frankie – playful short form of Francis and Frances.
Modern unisex names
- Riley – relaxed and sunny.
- Quinn – short, crisp and confident.
- Avery – gentle and elegant.
- Jordan – international and easy to pronounce.
- Ellis – Welsh and English surname with a soft sound.
Nature-inspired gender-neutral names
- River – a symbol of flow and freedom.
- Rowan – after the rowan tree.
- Sage – the herb, and also “wise”.
- Sky – open, light and airy.
- Kai – Hawaiian for “sea”.
Why choose a gender-neutral name?
- it gives your child more freedom of expression,
- it is often understood internationally,
- it isn't tied to the trends of one era,
- it grows with your child through every stage of life.
How to choose the right name: 5 questions
- How does it sound with your surname? Say the full name out loud and check the initials.
- Is it easy to spell and pronounce at home and abroad?
- Do you like the nicknames? Think about what friends will shorten it to.
- What does it mean? For many parents the meaning is part of the story.
- Will it suit an adult as well as a baby?
Frequently asked questions
What are the most popular gender-neutral baby names?
Well-established choices in English include Alex, Charlie, Sam, Riley, Jordan, Avery and Quinn.
Which unisex names are inspired by nature?
River, Rowan, Sage, Sky and Kai (“sea”).
Is it better to choose a short name or a long name with a short form?
Both work. A longer name such as Alexandra or Samuel with a unisex short form (Alex, Sam) gives your child the choice later on.
What should I consider with a surname-style name?
Check that it doesn't clash with your own surname and that it is easy to spell.
Where can I find more name ideas?
See also our lists of most popular baby boy names in Europe and most popular baby girl names in Europe.
Once you've chosen the name
Make the name you've chosen extra special with our personalised gifts. Planning a party for a mum-to-be? Take a look at our baby shower gift ideas.
